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Wednesday, October 30, 2019

REFORMATION ROMANCE: Part 2, Marriage Luther and Katie's Way

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Bond travelers at Augustinian cloister, Wittenberg
SACRAMENTAL CORRUPTION OF MARRIAGE
Pause with me in our narrative of Luther and Katie’s life together. How had marriage gotten so corrupted by the Medieval Church? In one of his influential pamphlets, “The Babylonian Captivity of the Church,” Luther made a frontal assault on the “foul contagion” of the entire sacramental system of Rome.

He decried making transubstantiation, indulgences, pilgrimage, baptism, marriage, monasticism, and penance into means of earning salvation. Even baptism and the Lord’s Supper Rome had mangled and distorted until they bore no resemblance to the two sacraments Jesus had established. “What Rome has done with the sacraments,” declared Luther, “I compare to a lie, which like to a snowball, the longer it is rolled the greater it becomes.” Luther wanted to restore a biblical understanding of justification that comes not of works or sacraments, but by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone.

Chief among the trumpery of Rome’s sacerdotal system was the garbling of marriage into a sacrament. According to canon law, monasticism and priestly celibacy were the higher order sacraments, but for the secular vocations marriage had been morphed into a sacrament, a means by which the lower order of society might have a better chance at achieving salvation. To Luther this was yet another instance of doctrinal bilge water spewing from Rome.

Far from having a lower view of marriage, however, Luther wanted to restore marriage to its rightful place in God’s economy of grace. Just as there was no inherent grace in taking monastic vows of celibacy, so there was no salvific grace to be gained in marriage. Moreover, it was doubly scandalous when men who had taken vows of chastity so shamelessly violated those vows. Alexander VI, the pope of Luther’s youth, kept several mistresses and fathered numerous illegitimate children; on his pilgrimage to Rome in 1510 Luther witnessed priests consorting with prostitutes at specially sanctioned brothels reserved exclusively for clerics.

Master of the invective insult, Luther declared of the pope: “You were born from the behind of the devil, are full of devils, lies, blasphemy, and idolatry; are the instigator of these things, God’s enemy, Antichrist, desolater of Christendom, and steward of Sodom.” Due to the stranglehold such abuses had on the common man, Luther felt justified in resorting to such vitriol. Later, however, upon more sober and gospel reflection, Luther said, “I am more afraid of my own heart than of the pope and all his cardinals. I have within me the great pope, Self.” Nevertheless, he was called in violent times to decry unsupportable abuses. Rome itself he declared, “the most licentious den of thieves, the most shameless of all brothels…”

If marriage was not a sacrament, however, what was it? “Marriage is the God-appointed and legitimate union of man and woman in the hope of having children or at least for the purpose of avoiding fornication and sin, and living to the glory of God.  The ultimate purpose of marriage is to obey God, to find aid and counsel against sin; to call upon God; to seek, love, and educate children for the glory of God. To live with one’s wife in the fear of God and to bear the cross; but if there are no children, nevertheless, to live with one’s wife in contentment; and to avoid all lewdness with others.”

Though at first adamant in his refusal to marry, it was only when Luther moved from writing theoretically about marriage to entering into the covenant of marriage itself that he came to see it as a lovely school of character, an ordinary means, gifted by a gracious God, whereby a husband and wife might grow in grace together and in the knowledge and love of Christ.
MATRIMONIAL TRAIN WRECK... Part 3


Douglas Bond is author of LUTHER IN LOVE and more than twenty-five other books of historical fiction, biography, devotion, and practical theology. He is lyricist for New Reformation Hymns, directs the Oxford Creative Writing Master Class, speaks at churches and conferences, and leads Church history tours in Europe. Watch for his forthcoming book God Sings! (And Ways We Think He Ought To); preorder a signed copy of God Sings! today at bondbooks.net and receive a free copy of Bond's New Reformation Hymns album.

Sunday, December 13, 2015

A New Commandment Post-Modernity Giveth Unto Us

(A version of this blog post first appeared in Ligonier Ministries TABLE TALK magazine, June, 2015)

Honor Your Father and Your Mother

“No more of parental rules,” declares Calvin as he and Hobbes strut north to be masters of their fate in the frozen Yukon. “Good riddance to those grown-up ghouls!” Life will be grand, so Calvin thinks, because there he won’t need to put up with—much less honor—his parents (Bill Watterson).
In a culture that honors youth, “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12a) makes no sense. Isn’t honor something we seek for ourselves? So what’s all this about giving it to others?
YOUTH CULT
Our tolerant culture has zero tolerance for aging, which has produced a cult of perpetual youth, with perfect teeth grinning at us wherever we turn. In the resulting frenzy to appear young, Americans annually spend an amount on cosmetic procedures sufficient to feed and clothe 54 million starving children. 

Devoutly honoring the superficiality of appearance, we look with longing toward youth—and with loathing toward age and maturity. We desperately don’t want to grow up and give up childish ways (I Corinthians 13:11b), so, rather than honor, we ignore or neglect the aged.

Dishonoring maturity, however, is not just the problem of our image-driven youth culture. Seeing the tendency in 16th century Geneva, Calvin cautioned from his deathbed, “Let the young continue to be modest, without wishing to put themselves forward too much; for there is always a boastful character in young folks… who push on in despising others.”

HONOR OR ABANDON

Perversely, our culture makes it a virtue to “push on in despising others,” especially parents. Jared Diamond, UCLA professor and Pulitzer Prize-winning author, argues that with technology and inexhaustible access to information we no longer need the mature as a source of wisdom. 

In his article “Honor or Abandon,” Diamond goes further: “It may under some circumstances be better for children to abandon or kill their parents.” Which flips the fifth commandment on its head, turning what is forbidden into what is required, neglecting and heinously acting against the honor of parents and others (WSC Q.65).

HONOR ALL

Going down to the heart, the fifth commandment extends beyond honoring parents. It “…requireth the preserving the honour, and performing the duties, belonging to everyone in their several places and relations, as superiors, inferiors, or equals” (WSC Q.64).

Enshrined in the fifth commandment is our entire duty to love our neighbor as ourselves—all our neighbors.

But honoring is hard; it requires us to suspend our self-worship, to give up the honor we imagine belongs to us and render it to another, to inconvenience ourselves for the benefit of others, to rise in the presence of the aged (Leviticus 19:32) and thereby honor God.

HONOR THE DISHONORABLE

Intractable lovers of self, we find honoring others too difficult—actually, impossible. So we cast about for a way out. Many have good reasons. An anguished young man once asked me, “How am I supposed to honor my father after what he’s done to my mother?” It was a good question. I knew what this father had done. He’d run off with another woman, leaving his pregnant wife to pick up the pieces of the domestic disaster created by his profoundly dishonorable behavior. Nevertheless, God tells this young man to honor his father.

Master finaglers, the Pharisees thought they had landed on the ultimate exception clause to honoring parents. They had cooked up a tradition that said when they declared their resources given to God they were off the hook on the fifth commandment. Jesus exposed the fraud: “So for the sake of your tradition you have made void the word of God. You hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy of you…:

“‘This people honors me with their lips,
            but their heart is far from me…’” (Matthew 15:1-9).

Only hearts that have been brought near to God in Christ can truly honor—even a dishonorable parent. Just as “Children obey your parents,” does not include obeying their sinful commands, so “Honor your father,” does not include honoring his dishonorable behavior.

However, if Peter can urge 1st century believers to honor everyone, including Emperor Nero (I Peter 2:17), then the command to honor parents isn’t made void by having a dishonorable parent, any more than the command to love our neighbor is void when we have a neighbor who lobs beer cans into our yard. God’s commands still apply in a broken world of imperfect neighbors and dishonorable parents; they were gifted to us by our gracious heavenly Father for just such a world.

PERFECT OBEDIENCE REQUIRED

Unique in the Decalogue, the Spirit annexed to the fifth commandment an enduring consequence for obeying it, “that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12b).

Long life—Everlasting life! Unshakably secured by our elder Brother whose obedience did surpass that of the scribes and Pharisees (Matthew 5:20), who alone is perfect as His heavenly Father is perfect (Matthew 5:48), who did what no one has ever been able to do: perfectly fulfill all the duties required in God’s Law. Pick your earthly hero; not one has truly honored his parents.

Except Jesus. Honoring His Father’s will, Christ prayed, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will but as you will” (Matthew 26:39). Forsaken by His Father on the cross, yet the Son perfectly obeyed and honored His Father—though it cost Him everything. 

“Honor your father and your mother.” Jesus did. In Him, we can grow daily in the grace of honoring our earthly parents for the still greater honor of our heavenly Father.


Douglas Bond, author of twenty-five books, including Grace Works (And Ways We Think It Doesn’t), is a PCA ruling elder, conference speaker, and church history tour leader www.bondbooks.net

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

A Warm Evening in Provence

Marvelous food and warm fellowship in charming south of France, Aix-en-Provence (where my daughter studied French in '07-'08) with Dr Bergey, Pierre and Daniele Berthoud, and Lionel Jauvert.
Family-friendly Bond tours--happy children and young people learning HISTORY WHERE IT HAPPENED!
Aix is the city of fountains, everywhere you turn there are charming gurgling sounds of cool fresh water
Where Luther stayed in 1510 when on his futile pilgrimage to Rome we have been tracing. Calvin may also have stayed here at what was then the Augustinian Priory and may have penned part of his Institutes of the Christian Religion here in Aix
Augustinian Monestary where Luther stayed in Aix in 1510 on pilgrimage to Rome, and where Calvin may have written part of the Institutes between 1533-1536.
Aix has been a central market town since the Middle Ages
Hotel de Ville
Pierre Berthoud, president of the board of the John Calvin seminary in Aix--wonderful fellowship in an open-air cafe next to the Medieval cathedral (my daughter often wrote letters here in this shady square, just across the street from her school)

South of France rose must be fountain temperature, just like the melon